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The musings and ramblings of your typical [or maybe not] queer, 21 y/o college student who longs to get out of Dallas, Texas. I am a very opinionated sex worker. This is your warning. My blog is NSFW sometimes. Browse at your own risk.

wildeblackseoul:

baddominicana:

cruelyouth:

daniellemertina:

kenyanabstract:

biglilkim:

Does it make you feel different about the Trayvon Martin case knowing that in recent pics he had gold teeth? It doesn’t change the way I feel, but of course supporters of Zimmerman’s think so. I don’t even know why I read the Blaze all the racist comments only incite me…..not today!

http://www.theblaze.com/stories/report-new-audio-surfaces-of-trayvon-martin-shooter/ 

I fucking hate people. Hate them.

I have a lot I could say but I don’t even want to go there. In all honestly, white people are taking me to a place that I don’t want to articulate right now.

Nobody wants to read what I thought about that caption on the pic with the gold teeth. I don’t even want to read what my comment would be. I have never been so angry and simultaneously terrified in my life.

Kids who wore gold teeth and who flip their middle fingers to a camera once can still be angels.  Just like white kids can still be demons no matter how “angelic” they look in pictures.

This is a fucking disgusting ploy to DEMONIZE A CHILD WHO A GENOCIDAL ASSHOLE KILLED BECAUSE OF HIS RACE.  PICTURES LIKE THESE WOULDN’T EVEN SHOW UP IF TRAYVON WERE WHITE, AND IF THEY DID, NOBODY WOULD EVER FUCKING THINK TO DO SOMETHING LIKE THIS.

I just…FUCK EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS, AND FUCK EVERYBODY WHO’S STUPID AND RACIST ENOUGH TO FALL FOR IT.

im really done w life.

Are you fucking kidding me? He was seveteen, a kid, kids do stuff like this, this shouldn’t be extraordinary or used in a way to derail the facts that he was murdered by a racist sociopath.

I hate people.  And where is this dumb ass getting his facts. I have no faith in the human race. None.

(via jellyfishverse)

#racism #victim blaming #Trayvon Martin

westendblues:

rawritxjlee:

nignoramus:

prescribemydrug:

complicated-at-best:

nignoramus:

all the marching, protesting, ranting & raving in the world isnt going to stop a nigga thats hell bent on taking the pussy from taking the pussy.

the anti-rape crusade is a waste of fucking time.

rape aint something you learn, its not something you`re taught, its not a fucking skill like picking…

Shit like this is what makes my job so hard! Everyday I have to go into a household, alone to install or repair something…..and there are moments the I feel tension because my customer may have had some type of assault that makes it extremely hard to live everyday life. Women, men, nor children should not have to resort to learning self defense against rape or any other type of assault. From personal experience…….I’ve had to try and answer the question “why me” and it was to my own niece! Do you really think I want to tell her “thats just the way the world is” That “I have to teach you to defend yourself because we live in a world that can’t stop rape!” She’s all of 8 years old and I’ll be damned if i let her go through it again or let someone tell her its her fault! Look at yourself when saying the statements above……..Imagine saying those things to your GIRLFRIEND, BOYFRIEND, MOTHER, DAUGHTER Or SISTER!

everyone has an opinon, and i understand the underling context. BUT YOU KEEP SHIT LIKE THAT IN YOUR HEAD. i shouldnt have had to fight that man off me but i did, hmm maybe if he HAD a reminder to BACK THE FUCK OFF he wouldnt have done it. dont be anti positivity. There are people who’s soul is empty because of the selfishness of another human. LIFE-less with a beating heart. 

a nigga suggest you learn how to defend yourself against a rape attack & thats not positive?

man….

suck my dick from the back yo.

I shouldn’t have to keep my doors locked to prevent niggas from stealing my shit because we should be teaching niggas not to steal.so i’m going to deny reality, take the locks off my doors, then throw anti-theft parades because I refuse to be a victim.

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oh okay. 

This whole thing is too disturbing for words. Really? really?

and Jaime what the actual fuck

I can’t even…

Nigga are you fucking being serious right now? Maybe if ya’ll had some sense… you guys got my blood pressure raised up and shit. What on God’s green earth is wrong with you? Blaming victims is not the answer. Teaching “don’t get raped” shouldn’t be fucking necessary. How about you learn not to fucking rape. There’s a fucking thought you ignorant fuck.

#A LITTLE THING CALLED VICTIM BLAMING #victim blaming #rape culture #rape #link

dumbthingswhitepplsay:

slutwalknyc:

[image: A teenaged boy at Slutwalk NYC. He has short pink hair and is wearing jeans and baggy grey tshirt. His jeans are ripped at the knee, but are otherwise unremarkable, and his tshirt has some sort of maroon logo. He is looking directly at the camera, and holding a large white sign. His sign reads: THIS IS WHAT I WAS WEARING. TELL ME I ASKED FOR IT. I DARE YOU.]

Guys who are reblogging this, please. HE is a BOY. Let’s not add transphobia to the bullshit, please.

dumbthingswhitepplsay:

slutwalknyc:

[image: A teenaged boy at Slutwalk NYC. He has short pink hair and is wearing jeans and baggy grey tshirt. His jeans are ripped at the knee, but are otherwise unremarkable, and his tshirt has some sort of maroon logo. He is looking directly at the camera, and holding a large white sign. His sign reads: THIS IS WHAT I WAS WEARING. TELL ME I ASKED FOR IT. I DARE YOU.]

Guys who are reblogging this, please. HE is a BOY. Let’s not add transphobia to the bullshit, please.

(via crackerhell)

#powerful image #rape #rape culture #sex #sexual assault #slutwalk #victim blaming #shaming #slutwalk nyc

If you want to be treated with respect, treat yourself first with respect, you can’t ask to be treated a certain way when your behavior paints an image that does not command it.

It’s not victim blaming, it’s simply telling girls to start being more responsible of their behavior, instead of simply blaming everything on the guy who was just going along with what you were doing.

Fantaspic

I may not agree with EVERYTHING she says, but I give props when and where it’s due.

(via earthwindfire82)

This doesn’t apply to everything but I understand how it’ll work for relationships.

At the end of the day, you set the precedent for how you think you should be treated. I agree with that part. 

But I also know that you can only impress upon someone how you would like to be treated. How they treat you is up to them. If they disrespect you then you have the choice to take it or leave it, and if you take it then you can’t keep blaming that other person for disrespecting you, can you?

(via baldblkgirl)

i really want to tell this person to shut the entire fuck up. and let me tell you why: BECAUSE RAPE. IS. NEVER. THE. VICTIM’S. FAULT.

oh my god this makes me shake with rage. it really does - because you simple motherfuckers BELIEVE this shit - and then you go on and spread this vile poison to other people - and sooner or later, so many of you have said it that you believe it’s true - and then some poor girl gets raped because her skirt was too short - and of course men are animals and they can’t control themselves - and all of a sudden “it’s not victim blaming. she knew what she was doing - going out looking all goddamn sexy and edible and shit, it’s not HIS fault for raping her. it’s her fault for looking like she wanted to be raped.”

SHUT. THE. FUCK. UP.

because i don’t care if the bitch is parading around naked and saying “i want 78 men to fuck me like a tunnel entrance while i pour peanut butter and jelly on my tits and each of them choke me and call me a goddamn whore while they spray their cum all over me and spit in my mouth.” i don’t care if she’s walking down the street nude saying “CALLING ALL COCKS! IN MY PUSSY NOW! ALLLLLLL COCKS!” i don’t care if she’s dressed like a cut-throat, ball busting business woman in a 3 piece tailored suit from Suits R Us. i don’t care if she’s a goddamned nun. i don’t care if she’s wearing a burqa or hijab. i. d. g. a. f.

at the moment she says no? even if that penis is a 16th of an inch from entering her - hell, even if that penis is inside her when she says no? YOU. STOP. that’s it. those are the rules. that’s all there is to it.

  • the moment she says no.
  • the moment she tries to crawl away
  • the moment she screams.
  • the moment she passes out.
  • the moment she says “we shouldn’t do this”
  • the moment she says “im not ready”
  • the moment she says “i changed my mind”
  • the moment she softly or UN-emphatically says “fine” or “yes”
  • the moment she just lays there and does nothing
  • the moment she starts crying
  • the moment she does anything other than emphatically, meaningfully, excitedly say YES:

that’s the moment you STOP.

all the rest of this quote from the OP? BULLSHIT.

(via peecharrific)

I AM SCREAMING W YOU PEECHY!!!!

(via soydulcedeleche)

…I…why the fuck is this ignorant victim blaming yotch on the mic?

(via karnythia)

(via karnythia)

#rape culture #victim blaming #quote

thatneedstogo:

newwavefeminism:

hopesichord:

Recently, President Barack Obama appointed Gabrielle Union to the National Advisory Committee on Violence Against Women, a national board dedicated to addressing women’s rights and domestic violence. This is a position the actress is extremely passionate about. In 1992, at age 19, Union was attacked, beaten and raped. As a victim/survivor of sexual assault, Gabrielle sees the importance of not only bringing awareness to the problem, but also being apart of the solution. HipHollywood spoke to Union about surviving a sexual assault and being apart of such an important committee.

wow…

She also recently tweeted about Rihanna’s man down video and has spoken publicly about how she attempted to shoot her rapist. (via Clutch Magazine)

Reason number 526 to love Gabrielle Union.

(Source: demarches, via karnythia)

#gabrielle union #victim blaming #national advisory committee on violence against women
It is never the victim’s fault.

It is not my fault…

#victim blaming #rape culture #personal
Topic Proposal for Essay #1

The topic I have chosen to write about for essay one in that of rape culture. Women, and sometimes men, are constantly put on trial when they go to the authorities as victims of rape. As a victim, and a friend of other victims, I have personally had to go through this ordeal on my own. I want to shed light on the situation that many people don’t even realize still happens today. The thesis I have picked is, “Though it may seem to be an outdated issue, rape culture is still a large part of society today. Rape culture involves slut-shaming, victim blaming, and an overall attitude where the word rape has become synonymous with losing a game by a large margin.” I will support my argument with statistics, logic, and testimonies from individuals. A possible issue that I may face is that it may seem like common sense not to blame victims, or use the word slut so loosely. However, it still happens everyday and I believe that people need to be aware of the issue.

#personal #school #english #rape culture #slut-shaming #victim blaming

oldtobegin:

stfuconservatives:

downlo:

nemene:

fistwavingfeminism:

No one disputes that an on-duty Irvine police officer got an erection and ejaculated on a motorist during an early-morning traffic stop in Laguna Beach. The female driver reported it, DNA testing confirmed it and officer David Alex Park finally admitted it.

When the case went to trial, however, defense attorney Al Stokke argued that Park wasn’t responsible for making sticky all over the woman’s sweater. He insisted that she made the married patrolman make the mess—after all, she was on her way home from work as a dancer at Captain Cream Cabaret.

“She got what she wanted,” said Stokke. “She’s an overtly sexual person.”

Click link to read full article

This is enraging…. and people claim rape culture doesn’t exist.

I just don’t understand this verdict. How the hell can that jury think that squirting bodily fluids on another person without their consent is at all OK?

“But she’s a stripper blah blah victim-blaming blah.”

By that logic, it should be legal to throw fecal matter at sanitation workers. Or to throw blood and vomit at doctors and nurses. Being a sex worker doesn’t give everyone else the right to have sexual contact with you.

“She got what she wanted”

Awful. Just awful. Victim-blaming at its finest. I’m pretty sure you would get thrown the FUCK out of a strip club if you tapped a dancer in the shoulder and then jizzed on her. Unacceptable behavior under any circumstances.

A jury of one woman and 11 men—many white and in their 50s or 60s—agreed with Stokke. On Feb. 2, after a half-day of deliberations, they found Park not guilty of three felony charges that he’d used his badge to win sexual favors during the December 2004 traffic stop.”

SURPRISE SURPRISE.

Who wants a drink?

I don’t give a fuck if she was driving home butt ass naked, this is unacceptable behavior. How on earth can any jury find this man not guilty? It is never okay to just ejaculate on somebody without their permission. This is rape (it’s still sexual assault in a case of coersion) and just because she’s a stripper she is all of a sudden a less credible victim. He just had to be in the right because he’s of the law and carries a badge. Ugh, I’m disgusted with humanity right now.

(via theaetherealmeadow)

#victim blaming #abuse of power #rape culture
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